This discussion will be about humanism and not accepting the bullying of a human being, boy or girl. Educational values require a full attention to the suffering and malaise. Being sweet is an attitude and a value that will make our inner human being grow up, whatever gender one might be. We need collective and individual commitment, it’s brave to advocate humanist values in the acceptation of the other, of his speech, his physical and psychological integrity be in class or elsewhere. Thoughtfulness isn’t a « soft concept » : it remains a political struggle for nonviolence, equality and solidarity. This struggle involves both women and men. It is fought with temporary victories and regressions, dedications and discouragements. As Virginie Despentes writes it : « Feminism is a collective adventure, for women, for men and others. An ongoing revolution. A vision of the world, a choice.